Sunday, September 26, 2010
recently i've watched eminem's music video.which the title is i'm not afraid.well is really nice and enjoyable music video and the lyrics was really interesting.well for me at least.this song has motivated me a lot.well the title itself has already bring a lot 'aura' to me.since i've heard that song i think i want to change my life and my way of living a life.i don't want to be afraid.with what people say about me and people think about me.why do i've to listen or care about them.people always say a bad thing about me.that i'm stupid and not a good guy.they always think that i'm not a suitable as their friend or anything that close to them.well fuck them!
other than me,i'm pretty sure that other people are always afraid with what the people will say about them.there is no need for them to be afraid.just like sun tzu said when you are facing the enemy that are greater than you, you should run and when you are facing the enemy that are same level with you,you should fight them as hard as you can and when you are facing the enemy that are weaker than you,you should spit are their faces.what sun tzu that are trying to say here is know your capability and don't rush in making decision.people that always afraid with what are people saying that people always making mistake in front of the other.but whats wrong with that?people make mistake.people make mistake to learn.so go fuck up with people taht always complaint about us.say in foront of their face,fuck you!
Sunday, September 12, 2010
there is a thought i heard recently where it's argue about whether friends can influence us or not. it's also said that in this environment which mean our friends will determine our future and most likely our life. this thought also I've been heard in a joke where the question is why are you act like a pig and the answer is because i am friend with a pig which a little disrespect if you make this joke with stranger but is the joke true or it just a tale or something that we make fun of? it's really hard to determine whether the environment really can influence us. but most of people is agree in this situation. even in religious also had make a comment in this issue. where in Islam it's said that good people are made for good people and bad people are mad for bad people. but this theory also can be deny by anyone. as we know that this issue is really subjective and in subjective issue there is no wrong or right only relevant idea is accept.
I've heard someone who are against this issue and really don't believe in this theory. they said people are move by himself and they don't need anyone to support them or follow them. they can be independent. just like tom hanks in cast away movie. where he was alone in an island and try to get out. but we can see that this theory is been proof right. in that movie that main actor is making friend with a volleyball ball. he think that he can get out of that island. how about if he making a friend with someone is not so optimistic. maybe he will never get out of that island. maybe he will give up and spend the rest of his life with his friend and die in that island.
now let we see what type of friends that really influence. is there any just of ordinary friends that will really influence us or really close friends. well for me i will say that really close friends will influence us a lot in our lifestyle or we can say that in our life. this is because we spent a lot of time with them compare to anyone. let's just say a kids. they spent a lot of time playing with their friends or imaginary friends. so they will easily influence by them. so that's why parents really need to monitor their kid's friends so they will not become to criminal or something that we really don't like. even though we will say that the kids is a family type or will not spent so much time outside playing but just having a wonderful time with their family. but when the time the kids will have a friend even one they will tend to be influence by the friend. they will much more easier to copy any action that be done by their friends. this is because of the curiosity manner that they have while they are growing up. this curiosity manner also have at the adult even though it is not so much compare to the kids. usually when someone thinks their friends is much more cooler, they will try to have the same status or level by copying their friends and sometimes they will try to beat their friends by doing anything to get the much more cool level. sometimes that is the reason why people are getting drunk or doing something stupid. it is just because they are intend to have the attention or feel threaten by them.